Divorce and informal lending from family and friends

Having joined the firm in April as a paralegal, I am now undertaking my first seat with the family group. So far I have been involved in a number of interesting cases, ranging from complex high-net worth financial disputes to cases involving children arrangements. My tasks have been extremely varied and have included drafting documents and correspondence, putting together trial bundles, liaising with counsel and attendance at court. Each case has been as fascinating as the last, primarily due to the subtle nuances unique to each scenario and the engaging human aspect of working closely with clients. 

One issue that has come up on several occasions is how the family courts treat loans from family members and friends within financial remedy proceedings. It is common for family members or close friends to lend each other money on the basis of a verbal agreement and with little or no formalities in place. Of course, when life is running smoothly, this causes no problems. 

"But divorce can put such casual arrangements under the spotlight."

Getting divorced can involve two different sets of proceedings. First, divorce proceedings, which consist of a straightforward paper application to the court to bring the marriage to an end. Second, if the parties cannot agree between themselves, financial remedy proceedings to settle their financial affairs. 

Financial disclosure is part of the financial remedy proceedings. This involves comprehensively setting out a party’s financial circumstances, including income, assets and liabilities with supporting documentation such a bank statements, tax returns and payslips. This is so that the court can see what there is in the marital ‘pot’ to be divided. A loan falls within the category of liabilities to be disclosed. 

If the loan in question is a commercial loan, which is commonly referred to as a ‘hard loan’, the borrower will have a contractual obligation to repay it. It will be clearly documented by a loan agreement with the lender and it may be secured against an asset. The borrower will repay the loan according to the loan agreement, which will specify what interest will apply, when payments will be made and what will happen if repayments are not made. 

However, it is rare that monetary agreements within families are formalised in the same way. If one of the parties to the marriage borrows money from a family member, there is often no written evidence, a low or zero interest rate and a relaxed approach to repayment. This can mean that these loans are classed as ‘soft loans’. As a consequence, the court may treat the loan differently, such as construing it as a gift which does not need to be repaid, or that, even if repayment was intended, there would be no consequences if this was not effected or effected over a longer period than previously anticipated.

Talking about formalising money arrangements with family members is frequently seen as awkward and unnecessary. It is a rare parent who will ask for newlyweds to sign a loan agreement.

"However, it is important to be realistic and consider what life might throw at you."

If you are planning to loan money to a family member, it is a good idea to have a loan agreement signed by both parties which details the terms of the loan, including the fact it is to be repaid. There is also the option of securing the money against, for example, a property or another valuable asset. Such steps may jar the fluidity of family life, but could prove crucial protection in the event of a subsequent divorce. 

Posted by Katherine Yu, trainee in the family practice group.

Katherine started her training contract with B P Collins in May 2015, after joining the firm as a paralegal in April 2015. Katherine graduated from the University of St Andrews with a joint honours degree in International Relations and Modern History. She went on to study the Graduate Diploma in Law at the College of Law and the Legal Practice Course at BPP in Holborn.